Finding Arc Length
Clear[x,y,f,r,curve]
x[t_]:=t^2
y[t_]:=t
r[t_]:={x[t],y[t]}
f[x_,y_]:={2 x y,x^3}
curve=ParametricPlot[r[t],{t,0,5}];
n=1;
lines=vectorPlot[Table[r[i],{i,0,5-1/n,1/n}],
Table[r[i+1/n],{i,0,5-1/n,1/n}]];
Show[lines,curve];Notice how this is a decent approximation to the curve. The sum of the lengths of these lines should be a pretty good approximation of the arc length of the curve.
l=Table[norm[r[i+1/n]-r[i]],{i,0,5-1/n,1/n}];
N[Sum[l[[i]],{i,1,Length[l]}]]Repeat this a few times by re-evaluating these two groups of command cells, but increase n each time.
As n increases, the line segments get smaller and smaller and approximate a small piece of the length of a curve, call it ds. (The variable s is usually taken to represent arc length.)
Using the Pythagorean theorem, we see that
(dx)^2 + (dy)^2 = (ds)^2, so
ds=Sqrt[ (dx)^2 + (dy)^2 ] or written in another way
ds=Sqrt[ x'(t)^2 + y'(t)^2 ] = ||r'(t)||, if r(t)=x(t)i + y(t)j.
In true calculus fashion, adding up these small pieces (in the limit) becomes integration! We have the following:

If r(t)=x(t)i+y(t)j+z(t)k from a to b is a continuously differentiable curve, the length of the curve is given by Integral from a to b of ||r'(t)|| with respect to t. To make this seem reasonable, let's look at the following:
r[t_]:={Cos[t],Sin[t]}
ParametricPlot[r[t],{t,0,2 Pi},AspectRatio->Automatic];
Integrate[norm[D[r[t],t]],{t,0,2 Pi}]I hope that was what you expected!
I have made this a Mathematica function in the
"initialization.ma" notebook. The definition is
arclength[r_,a_,b_]:=Integrate[norm[D[r[#],#]],{#,a,b}]
Let's try another one.
r[t_]:={2 Cos[t],2 Sin[t],t^2}
ParametricPlot3D[r[t],{t,0,2 Pi}];
D[r[t],t]
norm[D[r[t],t]]
Simplify[%]
Integrate[Sqrt[4+4 t^2],{t,0,2 Pi}]Here I went through all the steps for you. You could just use:
arclength[r,0,2 Pi]
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